Showing posts with label save a relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label save a relationship. Show all posts

Sunday, October 30, 2011

Love Relationship Advice -Where Can You Find Reliable Love Relationship Advice

It seems you can find love relationship advice anywhere these days. Everywhere you look, whether it’s TV or on the internet, there are the self-styled relationship ‘gurus’ giving you advice on how to have a happy and successful relationship. The problem is that many of these people don’t really know what they are talking about. So where is a guy or gal to turn?

One place you can usually get some decent advice on your love relationship is from your friends who are dating or who have been involved in a long-term relationship. Another good place to get some solid advice would be from…oh perish the thought!…your parents. They have lived a lot longer than you have (no matter if you’re 14 or 40) Wisely choosing where to get your advice is one of the major keys to succeeding in your relationships.

All of us have had problems with a relationship at some time or another in our lives. Sometimes I feel like we just keep making the same mistakes over and over again. I don’t know why this has to be. Perhaps some unresolved issue within ourselves. I know I had a few and until I was able to get past them, it seemed like could never get and keep the kind of relationship I really wanted.

I went through a stretch for many years that I call my ‘desert’ period. Boy, it seemed like no matter what I did, I just couldn’t keep it together. Things would be going along great with a relationship and then the boom would fall. It was awful! I thought I would never find that love connection I was looking for. I finally did, but until I got the right love relationship advice, life was pretty rough.

I was going through yet another breakup when I reconnected with a friend. He helped me discover the missing pieces that ultimately helped me rebuild and rekindle my broken relationship. I owe him more than I can ever repay for helping me to learn to do things differently. If you need some really great love relationship advice that actually works, you should check out the videos on his website here. He may be a little unorthodox for some, but his methods for saving a relationship really do work!

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

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Friday, June 27, 2008

Need To Know How To Get Your Ex Back?

Have you had a recent breakup and want to know how to get your ex back?
Unfortunately for us, we sometimes don’t realize how important things are sometimes until we don’t have them anymore. Yes, it’s sad, but true.

If you are really committed to mending a broken relationship, here are a few thoughts that may help you figure out how to get your ex back:

The first thing you will need to do is let your ex know that you realize there are things that need to change in your relationship and that taking a break is probably a good idea. Once they see that you are able to handle some time apart in a mature way, they can relax a bit and begin to think things through themselves. If you both can admit that there are problems or issues that must be resolved for the relationship to move forward maybe you can make some progress towards getting your relationship healed. The main objective is to keep a line of communication open for future use.

So what are you going to be doing during this time apart? First of all don’t go out of your way to contact your ex. If you bump into one another, fine. Be open and friendly, but not overly so. The main thing you want to avoid is becoming some kind of creepy stalker-type person. So no constant phone calls, text messages, or emailing!

Use this time to think about what the problems in the relationship were. What changes need to be made? What are you willing to do to see these changes happen? What are the things you feel you can’t compromise on?
Be brutally honest with yourself! If there are things you know have to be different and you honestly know you can’t change them, you are only delaying the inevitable second breakup. This is unfair to both of you.

Keep in mind there probably aren’t going to be any quick fixes to the relationship. It is going to take some time and effort for you to figure out how to get your ex back.

It isn’t easy to face the problems in our relationships and deal with the pain they’ve caused. If you can hang tough and learn to compromise a little and work through the issues you can come out of this a stronger couple with a much healthier relationship.

Thursday, June 26, 2008

Relationship Breakdown - Stop It Cold!

Wondering if you can save a relationship? There are many reasons for the breakdown of a relationship, but there are a few that seem to rear their ugly heads more than others. Being aware that these things can be a problem, can help us stop them cold before they damage our relationship.

*Becoming complacent: If we get too ‘settled’ in our relationship, it leads to getting into a rut. Living in the rut too long can bring on stagnation and discontent with each other. Get out of the rut and try something new and different once in a while! It doesn’t have to be expensive or spectacular to be special. If you need ideas for activities, try asking your friends what they do to add a little zest now and then.

*Lack of communication: Keeping communication open and flowing is a 'must have' to any relationship. How long would you stay friends with someone who ignored you? I’m guessing not very darn long! Both of you must communicate regularly and effectively or there’s not going to be much of a relationship to worry about. Talking out issues instead of arguing about them is much more productive. Many times a little open and honest conversation will help us save a relationship.

*No time together: We all seem to be working more just to keep our lives going. Be careful that you don’t let work and budget stress kill your relationship. Set aside some time each week just to ‘be' together. Use the time to relax and just enjoy each other.

Way too often people simply give up on what could be a great relationship because they feel so helpless to change things. Don’t let this happen to you! Even if your life isn’t going the way you want it to right now, the bad times don’t have to last forever. You can save a relationship, no matter how difficult it may be.