Relationships are fragile and you have to do some work to keep them built up and maintained. Unfortunately, relationships do break up and that can be a stressful and frustrating time. Many times when a relationship breaks up the first thought you have is that you want to get back at your ex. It’s a normal reaction, but do you really want to do that?
Following these 5 tips to get back at your ex will do two things:
a. It will put your ex in an interesting predicament.
b. It may also repair the relationship because your ex will see how important you really are/were to them.
These five tips can help you get back at your ex, but they can also be a great method to getting your ex back. So, what do you need to do?
1. Be strong. Coming across as too needy doesn’t help you. You need to stop clinging, begging, and acting desperate. Nobody likes a whiny little crybaby, so show the strong side of yourself even if you don’t feel very strong right after the breakup. Let your ex think that you have moved on just fine without them. If they think you’ve moved on, they may figure out that they really haven’t.
2. Minimize communication. It may seem wrong to reduce the communication between you and your ex, especially if you really want to repair the relationship. Don’t be misled, this is one of the most important steps in getting back at your ex or getting your ex back. So take a break from your ex, give them time to reflect for a while with little to no contact. It just might give them a chance to recall the good things about the relationship you two had.
3. Be flexible. Don’t force issues with your ex, such as demanding they ‘come get their junk’ by a certain date, move out immediately, or whatever. Freak them out by being flexible, listening to them, and sympathizing with their issues. They will be shocked that you are being so kind and mature. It may even make them want to rebuild the lines of communication that were lacking before the breakup.
4. Get out of the house! Call your friends and get out and socialize! You don’t have to date, or even pay much attention to the opposite sex, just get out and spend some time ‘hanging out’. This will be good for you, but it will also make your ex realize what they lost!
5. Be yourself. There was a good reason you and your ex had a relationship, so just be yourself and let your ex remember why they were attracted to you in the first place.
Whether you are looking to get back at your ex or to get your ex back, these five tips will have you feeling better about things in a very short amount of time.
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Very nice info and right to the point.
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Very nice and clear points. Its really helpful for broken hearts.
Thanks for posting your insights and experiences.
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I am kasha i lives in uk and i was in a serious relationship with my ex guy for three good years.. One day we were in a dinner party, we had a little misunderstanding which lead to a Quarrel and he stood up and left me at the dinner party. i try to call him but he was not picking my calls so after than i contacted my brother and told him about it,my brother so much love me that he had to see him on my behalf,he told my brother that it is over between us.. Then i contacted a friend of mine that had this similar experience and she directed me to one of the spiritual diviner (maduraitemple@yahoo.com).at first i thought it was not going to be possible and i contacted him i was ask to come up with a little requirement,so i did what i was ask to do, after 3 days i was in my office when my ex guy called me and was asking me to forgive him and come back to him. i was very surprise it was like a dream to me,so ever since we have been happily married with one kid my lovely baby(Ceslav)...i wish you the best of luck...
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